Gate 37: The Family (Friendship)

Gate 37 embodies the heart of friendship and unity. Once this Gate is activated, you have the wonderful ability to uplift and strengthen others not just emotionally, but also materially.

You are the natural glue in your community, family, or among friends, holding the group together. As a very appreciative person, you treat everyone with great respect, while it is equally important to you to receive the necessary appreciation yourself. Let yourself be pampered and enjoy being physically embraced ;)

With Gate 37, you have a high need for recognition, both in receiving and giving. This validation is felt most strongly on a physical level: a pat on the back, a hug, a handshake, or cuddling touches your heart the most.

Loyalty is your steadfast constant, and in your life, you always need clear agreements and contracts that you keep.

You are a distinctly social person who always includes strangers in your circles and wants to give them the feeling of being part of a community. And of course, you love to enjoy meals together and express love physically.

Soon you will notice that your energy flows increasingly towards the well-being of others, while your own needs remain unmet.

Gate 37 often leads to you being instrumentalized as an indefatigable caregiver for others, without receiving adequate compensation for this care. You tend to blindly remain loyal and act out of pure devotion on things that are not in line with your own integrity.

Although you need clear agreements, you shy away from consistently enforcing them. Instead, you accept unfair conditions out of fear of conflict and end up disappointed and hurt once again.